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Isabel Allende 

 by Marianne Rogoff, 1995

             I come from a very strange family…You don’t need to invent anything.  It’s given to you.*

             This is the beginning of Isabel Allende’s biography:  the “strange” family she is born into and her belief that all this will make a great story if she can only write fast enough.  Born in Lima, Peru, in 1942 and raised in Chile, Isabel as a little girl could be heard inventing stories for her younger brothers, Francisco and Juan. They were “…horrible…long stories that filled their heads with bad dreams at night and with unexplainable fears during the day.”

             Her father left the family when she was so small that she “has no memories of him”.  Isabel and her mother and brothers moved into the house of her grandparents.  Her grandmother was a woman who understood telepathy (she was said to be able to see matters beyond the range of the ordinary), and who conducted séances (meetings to receive communication from spirits) in the living room on Thursdays.  The young Isabel listened in and says, “There was nothing spooky about it.  It was just a part of life.  It was taken in a very natural way.”  Her grandfather, a practical man, “never believed in any of it, because grandmother couldn’t prove it.  It was not scientific.

            Her interesting family and the wild landscape of Chile, the beliefs of her family and other Chileans about the world of the spirits, about women’s role in society, political changes, and the rich details of her inner and outer worlds are all brought to imaginative and vivid life in Allende’s writing.  To understand any writer’s life and how she thinks, the best place to go is usually her books. 

            “For me, the impulse to start a book comes from a great emotion that has been in my heart for a long time.”   Allende’s first novel, The House of the Spirits (1982) was an attempt ton the author’s part to save the past, to gather loved ones together, and bring the dead back to life.  In writing it, Allende says, “I wanted to recover all that I had lost, my land, my family, my memories and the memories of those who were no longer with me.” 

            In September 1973, a military takeover resulted in the assassination of Isabel’s uncle, President Salvador Allende.  Watching the country she loved being ruined by military dictators was unbearable.  Isabel, her then-husband, and two children were forced to flee to Venezuela.  She remained there for thirteen years.

             Isabel Allende had been a journalist in Chile, and had worked for a women’s magazine, a children’s magazine, and for several television shows.  “My love for words induced me to work as a journalist since I was seventeen, but my imagination was a great handicap. I could never be objective, I  exaggerated and twisted reality.  I would put myself in the middle of every feature.  At that time, I also wrote humor articles, short stories for children and theater plays…Deep in my heart I wanted to become a fictional writer, by was too busy coping with my children, a husband, a house and a very demanding job.” 

            The accomplishments of women always have to be looked at in this light.  How much they have to overcome in order to accomplish anything at all:  the long history of prejudice against women competing with men for power outside the home, the daily chores of domestic life, raising children if you have them, political and financial realities.  Allende says her most difficult obstacles growing up were low self-esteem and the rigid cultural and social structures of society (Chile in the 1950s and 1960s).  “Fortunately, I was very rebellious and never complied.  I became a feminist at an early age.  Since childhood, I have been aware of inequalities and injustice in society and that awareness gave me the force to fight for the changes I wanted.  Much later, writing helped me overcome my low self-esteem.”

             Yet it was raising her children, the fact that they needed her, were dependent on her, that kept Isabel from falling into depression while she lived in exile from her country.  “The worst year of my life was probably 1978…In 1978, I gave up.  I wanted to die…I had lost my job, my country…I had lost my love too, because I didn’t love my husband anymore.  I felt terribly lonely.  I felt that the only thing that really tied me to this world was the kids…so I postponed my suicidal ideas or anything about my own life – happiness, love, marriage, everything – until I finished raising both my kids.  That was wonderful because it saved me from myself, from despair.”

             To keep her memories of her family and country from disappearing altogether, in 1981, Isabel began writing a series of letters to her grandfather as he approached the age of 100.  This writing turned into Allende’s The House of the Spirits, a book that has been widely acclaimed and became an international bestseller.   In 1994, the novel was made into a major motion picture, starring Jeremy Irons and Meryl Streep.  The clairvoyant main character, Clara, is based on Allende’s spirited grandmother:  “My grandmother was just like her.  Or maybe she wasn’t and I have made up everything!”  Full of patriotic men with a mission, passionate women, and ghosts, the story goes beyond a single generation’s story and spans the history of a country and a family.

             Allende’s writing style is called “magic realism”, a quality in much literature from South America that captures the magic that exists in everyday reality.  Chile’s lush landscape, tropical weather, the deeply held religious beliefs of its people, and turbulent history is the perfect setting for the author to tell her magical stories.  Isabel turned to the novel to reveal the “truth” because “often a story contains more truth than official history.  My job is to find that truth and reflect it in my writing.  That is the greatest joy of this weird craft…”

             All over the world her stories are read and then everyone knows what life is like for the victims.  In this way, empathy is built and action might be taken.  “My second novel, Love and Shadows, was written in fury and pain…The inspiration came from those hundreds of men, women and children that are murdered, imprisoned, and tortured and then ‘disappear” in my continent, victims of political repression.”

             Allende believes that the author has a responsibility to speak for those who have no voice, who don’t have access to the audiences that she inspires.  Allende speaks before crowds; she has been widely honored all over the United States, including honorary Doctor of Letters degrees from Dominican College (1994) and New York University (1991).  She has lectured in Europe. Latin America, and the United States.  She has taught literature at the University of Virginia, Monclair College and the University of California at Berkeley.  Through her writing, teaching, and speeches, Isabel Allende has advocated for the rights of the oppressed, not only those from Latin America, but for needy and silenced people from all corners of the world.

             After her uncle was killed in Chile and the dictator Pinochet took power, Isabel Allende took many risks helping people escape who were marked for torture and death.  By helping the persecuted, Isabel angered the new government.  She and her family were forced to leave the country.  In drawing clear pictures in her books and speeches about the evils of dictatorships, she has given the world a better understanding of the importance of freedom.  The written word is one of the most powerful ways to bring about social change, especially when it reaches a large audience.  Allende’s writings have been translated into more than 27 languages and have been read by millions.

             She has been a lifelong advocate for the rights of women and children.  Isabel has made numerous financial contributions to organizations that protect women and children from racism and violence and to innovative programs that help perpetrators of domestic violence learn alternative ways to handle their anger.

             As a woman from a place where, for centuries, literature and power were considered the sole territory of men, Isabel Allende is a strong role model for women.  Allende’s heroines are daring and inspiring pioneers who have suffered much and conquered problems in their own way.  Through her writing, we see realistic examples of how to be strong and take that first step toward self-empowerment.  Her advice for young girls of today who have goals for themselves?  “Put a knife in your teeth and don’t let anyone stand in your way.” 

            What brought Isabel Allende to live in Marin?  She answers, “Love!”  Her husband is an attorney in Sausalito and is “very American” while Allende no longer lives in the country she used to think of as home.  Because she was willing to let love lead the way, she arrived here in Marin County.  “Willie saved me from myself, and from all the threats of the past.  He gave me a country, roots, a home.  Many things I didn’t have.  I had been drifting for a long time…We are two absolutely different people who come from different backgrounds, different cultures, race, language, everything…Yet we won’t part.  I hope that nothing will ever separate us.”  Making love is listed as one of Isabel’s hobbies along with spoiling her grandchildren, telling stories, directing small theater plays, going to the movie and enjoying nature. 

            Yet, her 1995 book, Paula, is a sad reminder in the midst of all her happiness and abundance that tragedy can be random and blind.  In the book, Allende speaks to her grown daughter who has fallen ill and lapsed into a long coma.  (Her daughter has since died.)  The voice in the story tells the daughter everything she needs to remember about her family, her long history, and introduces her to the members of her spirit world.  In typical Allende fashion, the author spins a magical cocoon around the world she creates, and the reader enters and has no choice but to surrender to its trance-like atmosphere.  Her writing makes you understand that even dying can be beautiful at the same time as it is tragic, full of laughter along with tears, because such tragedies are familiar, part of living in a family, common to all of us.

             Allende’s books have received numerous awards including: Best Novel of the Year (Panorama Literario, Chile); Book of the Year (Germany, 1984); Grand Prix d’Evasion (France, 1984); Grand Prix de la Radio Television Belge (Belgium, 1985); Freedom to Write (Pen Club, USA 1991), and many others.  Clearly her work is reaching many shores and landing on many responsive ears.  The power of her womanly pen is mighty, and proves that toughness can be combined with gentleness and compassion, spirituality with independence and grounding in reality, femininity with fierce convictions.

             “I feel that I am a very privileged person and therefore I have an obligation to help those who are in need, especially women and children.  I want the world in general and this community in particular to be a safer and happier place for women and children.  In order to achieve that, all those in my position have to get involved.”

 Note:  Many quotes here were taken from an interview with Isabel Allende published in the book, Writers Dreaming by Naomi Epel – New York: Vintage Books, 1993.

 Isabel Allende: Writing 

             Allende sets her writing schedule to begin every year on January 8th, the special date she sets down to see what story she is about to tell.  She listens for voices, from her dreams and memories, from ghostly visits with departed family members, from herself.  She trusts these spirit guides to lead her.

             “The story starts unfolding itself, slowly, in a long process.” Until she finishes the first draft, the author does not know what it is about.  Voices outside of her know, and she has only to listen and record.  During this time, when she is setting about to hear the story, she has no social life, she doesn’t travel – she stays at home and works.  “Everything that distracts me from the world of the book annoys me, and bores me terribly…”  Unless there is something from the real world to steal and bring back with her to put in the book, she has no interest in it.  She watches movies during this time looking for “a sentence, an expression, a color, a little incident that I can transform or somehow use.”  Otherwise, the writer writes.

             Across cultures, languages, class lines, and races, we are dazzled by her artistry, the tales she tells, the web she weaves.  “You write a book and it is like putting a message in a bottle and throwing it in the ocean. You don’t know if it will reach any shore.”



 
 

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